MMF or MFF threesome, which is easiest to begin with?

If you're a single guy or girl you may have wondered whether you should start with a MMF or a MFF threesome. Likely, as a couple, you may be unsure of whether to invite another girl or guy.

First, the obvious: it depends on your own preference. That obviously the most important aspect, but I'll say this: there's more to it than that. Namely, there's also availability.

The short answer is: MMF is easier to find than MFF. For details, see below.

For Couples: MMF (but MFF is not that much harder)

It's going to be much, much easier to find a willing guy to do it with (the hard part is just choosing an experienced and decent one). The way to find a guy is usually to put up an ad online, collect lots of replies, and choose the best.

You could do the same to find girls, but you'll get much fewer replies (if any, depending on where you are), which means less choice. Finding girls can be done through other means: she may have some distant acquaintances, or you might try your luck in a club (works if you are used to picking up girls in clubs and she's brave enough to initiate contact with girls).

For Single guys: MMF (for MFF, get a partner)

Most guys who have done neither MMF nor MFF think they would prefer a MFF. For good reasons: it's much less intimidating. Finding two girls that will go home with you from a club is however not likely to happen at all: girls don't wanna have sex with their friends, even if they are bicurious (it's awkward afterwards). And two random girls are just unlikely to agree to it, unless you've got mad pick up skills. The way to do an MFF is to get a fuck buddy, and then find another girl with her (or get two fuck buddies, and join them). (That is, to become a "couple" as above.)

MMF is easier: you can find other couples (the ones looking for MMF!), although be ready for fierce competition as they are many guys out there that show interest, some of which are very experienced.

For Single girls: None (get a partner first)

It's probably already obvious, but there's only one way to do both MMF and MFF safely: get a male fuck buddy or boyfriend, so that you will essentially become "couple" above. Then follow that procedure. Couples sometimes hunt girls in clubs, but it's much less obvious to you as a girl which couples will be up for it, so you can't really do the converse.