The only blog with serious information about group sex?

After doing some google searches, it seems like this blog may be one of the very few that actually contains "serious" information about threesomes and group sex, as opposed to lots of porn photos and videos!

Things you should try on your first MMF

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How to Have Clean Anal Sex

Many girls that refrain from anal sex do so for two reasons: concerns over pain and hygiene.

Less Painful Sex

Anal sex is painful in the beginning, but it can be made less so by using a lot of lube. Lube should be applied both to the anal opening and to his cock (don't just apply lube on top, apply all the way down to the shaft). The obvious then applies: start very slowly, only inserting the tip of the cock. Guy doesn't move at first, so the girl can get used to the feeling (this can actually take up to a few minutes, so be patient as a guy).

A good starting position is spooning. Her on top gives her more control, but also more responsibility in making it "work", which is not suitable if she's never done it before. Doggy style may be too painful to start with.

Pain as a result of anal sex goes away with training: it will always be a little painful in the beginning, but the rest becomes much more enjoyable.

Hygienic Anal Sex

The only way to have perfectly clean anal sex is to use an enema. The enema is filled with hot water which is then sprayed into her ass. This makes her poop out everything (after repeating a couple of times). End with a shower and you need not worry much about getting shit on his cock.

Enemas can also be used for most advanced anal sex: ass licking / sticking tongue into anus ("rimming") and ass-to-mouth. 

How to make a DP/DPP enjoyable (and not just something to tick off)

Many people are under the impression that DP is "something that is mostly done in porn cause it looks cool, but isn't that hot in real life". Sadly, this is true of many real cases of DP: cocks easily slide out, guys are having a hard time positioning themselves, and girls may experience pain. I'll treat these three problem separately.

Cocks Easily Slide Out

There's no easy way around this one: at least one of the guys should have at least average long cock, preferably even longer. When you do a DP, put the guy with the longer cock underneath. This will allow the guy with shorter cock to adjust and push in from behind when doing cowgirl. If you're doing reverse cowgirl, still put the guy with longer cock underneath (he'll go into her ass then, but the point is that by virtue of being underneath he can't move as easily).

Positioning

For DP, the easiest position is cowgirl: one guy in the bottom (preferably the one with longer cock, see above), girl climbs on top of him (facing him), second guy insert into her ass from behind/above. It's a little hard for the second guy to get angles right, so here's what the other two can do to help:

1. Bottom guy grabs her butt cheeks, and separates them, exposing her anus. This makes it easier for second guy to insert his cock into her ass.
2. Girl leans upper body forward as much as possible (lying flat on top of bottom guy), and pushes up ass. Just like during anal doggy style.
3. Obviously, second guy that comes in from the back should use tons of lube (both on his condom and put lube around and inside her ass using his finger).

Once second guy gets his cock inside, slowly slide it in all the way. Then lay still for a while, so everybody can make minor adjustments. Then let second guy pound her ass slowly for a while (he'll get harder), then bottom guy can start moving a little too. Enjoy!

For DPP, I actually find reverse cowgirl easier than cowgirl. The reason is angle: the second cock (the one that would go into her ass were it a DP) can't enter the pussy a high angle, as would be the case when doing a DP in cowgirl position. When doing reverse cowgirl, the girl mounts one guy with her back towards him (the easiest way to start this position is spooning, then the guy simply rolls up the girl on top of him). Then the second guy enters missionary style (with lots of lube again). The only difficulty is all the legs: bottom guy and girl need to spread legs wide apart, so that second guy gets space. An alternative to have bottom guy with straight legs, and second guy "sitting" on top of his legs. Girl must obviously still spread her legs.

Girl may experienced pain

The way to avoid pain is to use a lot of lube and patience. Lube her holes, then lube both cocks. Second guy must enter slowly, both when doing DP and DPP. She must be really horny obviously, as this creates natural lubrication. Don't move too much in the beginning, let her get used to just having two cocks inside for half a minute or so. Then start moving very slowly, first only second guy (not bottom), as it minimizes the risk of cocks sliding out (see above).

Ground Rules: What needs to be stated?

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MMF or MFF threesomes, which is better?

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Where to have Threesomes / Group Sex

Where should you have a threesome / group sex?

The perhaps most obvious answer is: at home, of course! Except many people don't feel comfortable revealing too much about themselves to a stranger they're going to have sex with (as ironic as it may sound).

There's plenty of "love hotels", hotels which you can rent by the hour. You could take one of these, or just a cheap regular hotel (make sure there's a private ensuite and the room is big enough).

In Hong Kong, there's Eden on Wellington road in Central.

How to keep going for a long time

During a MMF or MFF, it's important to have stamina. Not only physical stamina (hit the gym), but also not cumming too fast.

If you're doing a MFF and the girls aren't experienced, the threesome critically relies on you having an erection. The moment you cum, it also dissolves into friendly chatter but no more sexual vibe (until you initiate again).

During MMF, there's another guy, which makes it awkward to cum too fast, as you'd ruin the MMF experienced, turning it into a normal one-on-one session with some watching.

Here's a couple of things that help a lot:

1. Use condom. Except that it's way safer, it will prolong sex (can be used by bf of couple).
2. Have sex or jerk off the night before you're going to do have group sex.
3. Take breaks. Use your fingers and tongue.
4. During DP and DPP, the bottom guy doesn't move much, which gives him some rest (take turns).

Where to find threesomes and group sex

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MMF or MFF threesome, which is easiest to begin with?

If you're a single guy or girl you may have wondered whether you should start with a MMF or a MFF threesome. Likely, as a couple, you may be unsure of whether to invite another girl or guy.

First, the obvious: it depends on your own preference. That obviously the most important aspect, but I'll say this: there's more to it than that. Namely, there's also availability.

The short answer is: MMF is easier to find than MFF. For details, see below.

For Couples: MMF (but MFF is not that much harder)

It's going to be much, much easier to find a willing guy to do it with (the hard part is just choosing an experienced and decent one). The way to find a guy is usually to put up an ad online, collect lots of replies, and choose the best.

You could do the same to find girls, but you'll get much fewer replies (if any, depending on where you are), which means less choice. Finding girls can be done through other means: she may have some distant acquaintances, or you might try your luck in a club (works if you are used to picking up girls in clubs and she's brave enough to initiate contact with girls).

For Single guys: MMF (for MFF, get a partner)

Most guys who have done neither MMF nor MFF think they would prefer a MFF. For good reasons: it's much less intimidating. Finding two girls that will go home with you from a club is however not likely to happen at all: girls don't wanna have sex with their friends, even if they are bicurious (it's awkward afterwards). And two random girls are just unlikely to agree to it, unless you've got mad pick up skills. The way to do an MFF is to get a fuck buddy, and then find another girl with her (or get two fuck buddies, and join them). (That is, to become a "couple" as above.)

MMF is easier: you can find other couples (the ones looking for MMF!), although be ready for fierce competition as they are many guys out there that show interest, some of which are very experienced.

For Single girls: None (get a partner first)

It's probably already obvious, but there's only one way to do both MMF and MFF safely: get a male fuck buddy or boyfriend, so that you will essentially become "couple" above. Then follow that procedure. Couples sometimes hunt girls in clubs, but it's much less obvious to you as a girl which couples will be up for it, so you can't really do the converse.

DP and DPP Preparations

Before you go on doing a DP (addressing you as the bf of the girl, or the girl herself), you should make sure you've done the following first:

Dildo DP

Try cock in ass and dildo in pussy. If that works well, it's a good sign. If not, keep practicing. Avoid using a hard dildo if you can: hard dildos are very unlike cocks, which are flexible (even when hard) and can bend and compress.

For DPP: same as above, except you stick in both cock and dildo in pussy. Easiest way is probably to first insert dildo into pussy, then cock above dildo, missionary style. That way, the guy can easily hold the dildo while fucking, preventing it from sliding out.

Buy lubricant

It's always a good idea to use lube during anal sex, more so during DP. Same goes for DPP, use lube, as it will be tight inside pussy!

Before the actual DP or DPP, lube both outside and inside of pussy, as well as both cocks (for condom users: lube the outside obviously, the inside should not be lubed as it may slide of the cocks then).

Should you have a MMF threesome with your girlfriend?

You may have been talking about trying a MMF with your girlfriend (a threesome involving another guy), but how do you know for sure whether it's going to work out fine?

Here's a quick check list of things I've noticed was of concern to me:

Jealousy Test

Make sure you won't be jealous. A good test is the following: ask your girlfriend to describe one of her wildest sexual adventures she's done before (presumably with only one guy, but nevertheless). If you get turned on , great! If you feel jealousy, well, then you're not ready. It doesn't mean you never will be, but you'll need to work on getting used to your girlfriend's stories before you actually have an MMF.

Reverse Jealousy Test

She also needs to know you won't freak out if you see her fuck another dude. Once you've past the jealousy test above, you can (pretty) safely reassure her by explaining that her past adventures only turn you on.

Experienced Third

Make sure the guy you invite has experienced doing MMF before (not just "threesomes", as this could mean MFF). Why? Because most inexperienced guys have penis aversion, and they just can't get hard when it's time. So ask him (through email/internet) about his past experiences, and be a good judge of character.

MMF Dirty Talk

Dirty talk about what to do during a MMF. You'll find each others dos and don'ts. The don'ts are the ground rules you should set during the MMF (that's the rules you tell the male guest to respect).

Terminology

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